Meta-than-thou

I’m such a coward. Despite the fact that there were live feeds of it all over the ‘net, I found myself experiencing (because neither ‘watching’, nor ‘listening’, nor ‘reading’, seem entirely accurate) the second presidential debate via the blog comments at Atrios. It’s ...

Too much choice

A. and I spent at least ten minutes in the cereal aisle at Albertsons last night trying to decide what to get. In the end we had to choose our own, because we couldn’t agree. What is it about cereal shopping that turns us back into five-year-olds? Not cranky squabbling five-year-olds, but having been taken ...

On role-play, and being an emotional vampire

Something kink-related for a change — although not without my usual flair for draining the wind out of things by over-analysing them. Enough of my kink friends are role-players that I keep coming back to trying to figure out quite what it is about role-play that I either don’t grok, or that I grok on ...

The Broad and Dreary Sands of Redcar

One of those moments of weird cultural dislocation, or maybe co-location. We have a copy of Nathaniel Hawthorne’s The Marble Faun in our bathroom — don’t ask, it’s just there. Flicking through it idly while, well, while contemplating a bowel movement, I read the following line in his own preface: And, ...

Metal to metal, dust to dust

I think I’ve worked out what Los Angeles is for. What it does. It struck me the other day as I was driving to work from Santa Monica to East LA. Forget the motion picture capital stuff. That’s just a front. On Lincoln, in Santa Monica, I watched a girl test drive a new Vespa ...

Norm’s and a Lost Girl

It was probably nothing, she’s probably just fine, but she couldn’t have looked any more lost than she did while I was watching her wander up and down the street on Lincoln. The window at the diner booth I was sitting at might as well have been only one way, so clearly could I see ...

Still Two Cultures

The Two Cultures are both alive and well, thank you very much, as is the yawning chasm that exists between them for some people, most aptly illustrated by their pathetic attempts to reach across it. This piece by Philip Pullman (of His Dark Materials fame) in the Guardian is so lazy, clumsy, and, well, undergraduate, ...

The Little Blue Light in the Dark

A few years ago I was sitting by the pool at a friend’s house — actually her sister’s house, but that’s by the by. It was a hot, clear deserty day — a photo I took that day shows A. and the friend in the foreground, with a large cactus in the background. As we ...